Wednesday, February 26, 2014

#ARIAFREAKSOUT



Hello Readers !

Yesterday's episode of PLL answered and provoked many questions for Aria and the other liars. Aria was filled with rage and trashed Ezra's place (I would have burned it down). She found a lot of things in Ezra's place which made me question if he placed them there on purpose for her to find ? You would assume that she would want to see him after what happened last week and if she couldn't get a hold of him at school she would have gone to his apartment. He wasn't there and he gave her a key so obviously she is going to let herself in. I just want to know why he would just leave the journals and the files there, unless he thought Aria was so pissed that she was just going to ignore the whole situation? Aria is one of my favorite liars and I feel so bad that she is going through this, especially when she admits that Ezra really didn't love her to begin with.

Ezra is a liar and I dislike him. How does he go to New York to meet with his publishers with the final installment of the Ali book and to plan a release date?! Have you no consideration!? &^#$*!

SPENCER NEEDS HELP !!! I don't know in what mind does Spencer think it's okay to take the pills that A left in her locker, she is so much smarter than this. THEY COULD HAVE KILLED HER ! I also think that if Mrs. DiLaurentis was questioning whether or not Spencer hurt Ali, she got her confirmation when Spencer grabbed her arm. I think Spencer is going to go back to Radley very soon if she keeps up with her reckless behavior. I think the storyline of the show is going to change for Spencer, I believe they are going to make it seem that she was hooked on the pills on the night that Ali went missing and she has this memory suppressed and will come to light in the season finale.

When Paige and Emily started dating I was not supporting it given the past that Paige had with Ali many years ago.  Paige is beginning to question a lot of things and its so much better for her to not know certain things in this relationship.  If I was Emily I would have broken up with her as soon as she gave me that ultimatum and I was super annoyed that she then expected everything to be all sunshine and daises after. NO PAIGE. Does anyone think that Paige is working with A? I dont think she is working with A, I just don't trust her. At the end of the episode we see Paige leave an envelope with a note saying that Ali is alive and where to begin looking for her. WHY CAN’T YOU JUST LEAVE THINGS ALONE PAIGE !

GABRIEL HOLBROOK *swoons* he's so cute and I know for a fact that him and Hanna are going to get together in the very near future. I just don’t know how she is going to deal with Travis, I really like him and I think she really likes him too. Who will Hanna choose?

What I do want to know is where does Aria end up when she leaves her house and tells Emily to go away? I was thinking that she was going to New York to find Ezra and confront him. We will definitely find out where she goes next week and there’s a new guy in the picture! Three more weeks till the season finale #ALITELLSALL! I'm so excited I can't wait!

Thanks for reading!

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

#ARIAFINDSOUT



Hello there readers ! 

So if you saw last night's episode of PLL, you would know that Aria found out about Ezra and what he has been hiding from her.  BUT, I really think he's lying to her AGAIN ! I'm not even going to begin to explain how annoyed I am with Ezra. He tells Aria (while in a nonmoving ski lift 50 feet off the ground) that he was writing a crime novel around the Alison DiLaurentis case, because he wanted to know more, he admitted that he was using Aria and how he knew who she was before she even introduced herself at the bar back in season 1. He also claims that he stopped writing the book when they got serious and started back at it again when they broke up. But of course he manged to slip in "I never lied about my feelings for you."  LIARRRRRRRR

He had enough time to think of a lie to tell Aria should she ever find out about his hidden agenda. Let's be real here, he removed all the computers and photos that were in the hidden basement of the cabin; he knew that she was going to find out very soon. If I was Aria I would have thrown Erza off the ski lift and called 911. But then I'm like "Aria how stupid can you be ?! How do you leave your car keys behind ?!" But now that she knows, I hope she gets back together with that kung ku hunk Jake <3. 

At the end of the episode we see an unknown person picking up all the pages to the draft of Ezra's book, which leads me to believe that there's someone else either working with him that isn't Mona or against him.  While we are talking about Mona, can we all agree that she told Erza that things are getting "complicated" because she is catching feelings for Mike too (*gags*). I don't think that Mona was the one at the zoo, the person looked way too tall to be Mona, but it could have been her. Maybe it was Shawna ?  CeCe ? 

On to the "speed addict" Spencer.  I don't think that Spencer is addicted to the pills that severely that she needs help.  But Ezra did tip Aria off that it is not the first time that Spener has done this. I just don't think it was his place to give Aria the ultimatum that if she didn't confront Spencer about her pill popping issue, he was going to tell her parents. MIND YOUR BUSINESS EZRA. I hope Spencer gets back on track in the next episodes not only for herself but to fix things with Toby. 

I hope I was not the only person that was almost having anxiety attacks while watching it. Let me tell you, if I was hiding behind a bush and my psycho-boyfriend is looking for me yelling my name, I would have had to massive heart attack.  

I can't wait to see what happens next week ! 

Thanks for reading, 
Amanda

Friday, February 14, 2014

L O V E & Relationships: A Valentine's Day Post

Since the day that is dedicated to love and all things related to it is quickly approach us, I decided to write a semi-personal post about my thoughts on this "Hallmark" holiday, love, and relationships in general. 

I have been super blessed to be around a lot of loving couples all through out my life.  My parents have been together for over 20 years and strong believers in the sense that Valentine's day is everyday and you do not need a day marked on the calendar to show your love to the people you care about the most.  

Now, I know what you must be thinking...what the hell does she know about love ? She has been single for what feels like 100 years. The answer is yes, I have been single for a while but its been such a great amount of time and a great learning experience.

I am very set in my ways, I know what I want in a relationship and I know what I want in the person I want to have a relationship with.  I have had people tell me that I'm "too picky".  I don't think I'm "picky" at all. I know what I want in life and I will never settle for someone "just because". Why should I have to settle ? I know what I'm worth and I want someone to appreciate me in all that I am...if this means that I will remain single for the rest of my life, so be it. 

In the past years, I've learned a lot about myself. I learned what I want in someone, what I will tolerate and what I won't, but most importantly I learned how important it is to love yourself first.  How can you love someone else if you don't love yourself ? 

My previous relationship was a learning experience/eye-opener...never get together with a selfish person that only have their wants and needs ahead of yours. I feel that a relationship should never focus on just one person, it should be about both people. COMPROMISE & COMMUNICATION are such vital factors when it comes to a successful relationship. If you're unhappy in your current relationship, you should tell them ! How are they supposed to know what you're feeling if you don't communicate?

A relationship should never be "my way or the highway", if you honestly believe that you will find someone with this mind set, it will happen for you but they will eventually get tired of your ass and bounce. You have to give a little to get a little. Don't argue over the stupidest things in the world, there will be bigger things that you will need to hash out with your partner. Do you honestly want to lose an important person over a "why didn't you tell me you where going to such-and-such place?" I think not ! 


I hope you enjoyed this post & hope you have a wonderful day with your loved ones! 

With love always,
Amanda